can somebody who can actually use cas help

I am terrible with CAS, I've been trying to make sims that look like myself and my boyfriend for ages and just can't pull it off. A tip I received once which I've used a few times is once you've gotten the face or body shape they way you like I was told to switch the gender and see if it still looks realistic. So you make a man and make his face then do a quick switch and make him female to see if anything looks super disproportionate.

The body shape I usually just let it go, I try to make them normal but in real life everyone has different and odd shaped bodies so I just let them go.

There is a serious lack of hair styles in the game and I don't like to download mods so I am limited but if you dont have a problem downloading mods I know there are a lot of beautiful styles out there.

I had the same problem with the makeup but these new sliders help so much with making a more natural makeup look