Yes, I don't understand why we still don't have this. We really need that kind of control (maybe with an option to let the game decide for those who want it to just happen) (and ideally some kind of wider preference system eventually). I just want my flirty sims not to flirt with literally everyone in the room and my currently unplayed sim not to end up with a bunch of budding relationships... And I want my sims to stay whatever I've set them up as. And yes, it should include "both" and "none" options.
