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5 years ago

Convince to leave spouse not appearing

I recently had my actress sim have an affair with her co-star and get pregnant by him. I had the convince to leave spouse option appear, but I had her go back to her husband and after telling him about her pregnancy they had a fight.
I then had her go back to her new boyfriend/co-star. They're both very flirty and have amorous exchange (which I found was needed when I did a search) and now the option to convince her to leave her spouse is no longer available.

Did I wait too long? If I did, I'll just have her divorce him via MC Command Center. I think maybe I should have done it right away. :/

Where can I find it if I choose to do this again with different (or even the same) sims?

I looked it up, but all I find is stuff that is either out of date or doesn't say what it's under. Is it under Mean, Friendly, or Romantic?

Please help.
  • It shows up under romantic and sometimes friendly. They have to have a high enough friendship and romance for it to appear.
  • "simgirl542;d-969439" wrote:
    I recently had my actress sim have an affair with her co-star and get pregnant by him. I had the convince to leave spouse option appear, but I had her go back to her husband and after telling him about her pregnancy they had a fight.
    I then had her go back to her new boyfriend/co-star. They're both very flirty and have amorous exchange (which I found was needed when I did a search) and now the option to convince her to leave her spouse is no longer available.

    Did I wait too long? If I did, I'll just have her divorce him via MC Command Center. I think maybe I should have done it right away. :/

    Where can I find it if I choose to do this again with different (or even the same) sims?

    I looked it up, but all I find is stuff that is either out of date or doesn't say what it's under. Is it under Mean, Friendly, or Romantic?

    Please help.


    https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/963692/i-m-the-boyfriend-of-a-married-sim
  • @Hoverael, I saw that post, but unfortunately, I didn't see an answer to my question.

    @catloverplayer, my two sims are at 100% for both friendship and for romance, but for some reason it's no longer appearing anywhere. Thank you for the answer to my question as to where to find it.

    I guess I'll have to break her up with her husband another way. Now to decide if I want to do it via cheating with mods or if I want to move her back in with her husband, have her divorce him, and forever traumatize their three young boys.