Daddy sim randomly being rude to his son

I’ve had a similar problem with sims just being nasty to one another for no reason. If you play with mods do you mind listing them to see if we have any of the same ones? This may be a mod issue since other players haven’t complained. Although I don’t have a fix for you, if you make use of the reset object cheat you can prevent them from finishing the interaction so their relationship won’t take a hit.

Could it be something to do with the clumsy trait too? I have a set of two families living together. A brother with his wife and 3 kids along with his sister and newly married bro-in-law. They were getting along just great until his bro-in-law just randomly started flirting with the guy's wife. She rejected it all but they never showed any interest before, but husband and wife took a relationship hit. BIL has the clumsy trait, I figured it had something to do with it being clumsy not only physically but socially too...

"AmTk86;c-17646596" wrote:
I’ve had a similar problem with sims just being nasty to one another for no reason. If you play with mods do you mind listing them to see if we have any of the same ones? This may be a mod issue since other players haven’t complained. Although I don’t have a fix for you, if you make use of the reset object cheat you can prevent them from finishing the interaction so their relationship won’t take a hit.

Here's my mod list. Thank you.::)
I've no idea which mods can cause this issue. :(
I don't use MCCC.

Cien - No EA Lashes V5 For - For All
FalseHope_DisabledEnvironmentIdles
Fogity_HiddenHighlight
LittleMsSam_NoSickDirtySadHungryPets
LukeSimoleon_MagicIsFun_Hi
MonoChaos_NoMoreParenthoodPhases
More_CAS_Columns_(4_Columns)
MSFasterFoodAndDrink CatsDogs Addon
MSFasterHygieneALLINONE
MSQSIMS_No Autonomous_Drinking
MTS scumbumbo Keep Instruments In Inventory
MTS_bjnicol_1917715_FAH57_EatFasterAndPreferTables
MTS_dhikaodonk_1854280_dhikaodonk_VampirePowerWeaknessBugFix
MTS_egureh_1653365_NoAutoRudeFlirtyEnchantingHilariousGreetings
MTS_itasan2_1891330_Ita_ShowSimInfo_ScriptAndPackageV3.8.1
MTS_LittleMsSam_1733783_ShimrodLessMusicalChairs_V4_UpdatedbyLittleMsSam30112017
MTS_LittleMsSam_1891427_MTS_Scumbumbo_SetFiltersOnPaintingsByReference_UpdatedByLittleMsSam
MTS_Manderz0630_1776493_ShimrodPregnantWalkDisabled_V5
MTS_Manderz0630_1945409_ShimrodEnergizedWalkDisabled_V4
MTS_Manderz0630_1945410_ShimrodConfidentWalkDisabled_V4
MTS_PolarBearSims_1729924_Teen_Adult_Romance
MTS_RedRidingCat_1761866_StopGrowlingDFChanged
MTS_scripthoge_1458680_NoFatness
MTS_scripthoge_1458681_NoMuscles
No Instant Upgrade Delay
No_More_Random_Illness
nyandesu_optionalvampireweaknesses
ShimrodFacialOverlaysLessSmiling
ShimrodKissNeckForAdults_V2
Tmex-AllCheats
tmex-ObjectDestroyFix
UI_Cheats_Extension_v1.19
Wiggler_DisableAutomaticFameQuirks

"sarabeth2984;c-17646639" wrote:
Could it be something to do with the clumsy trait too? I have a set of two families living together. A brother with his wife and 3 kids along with his sister and newly married bro-in-law. They were getting along just great until his bro-in-law just randomly started flirting with the guy's wife. She rejected it all but they never showed any interest before, but husband and wife took a relationship hit. BIL has the clumsy trait, I figured it had something to do with it being clumsy not only physically but socially too...

I've searched about the clumsy trait on sims wiki. Would 'the special playful moodlet' be related? Not sure about that :) My T sim doesn't flirt with anyone with his own free will though. When T sim being rude to his son, I can see ' mean interaction evil face icon' on multi conversation icon.

Attributes Edit

Clumsy Sims are less likely to trigger sad or angry emotions.
When they fail at something they're more likely to laugh, rather than cry and get upset.
Clumsy Sims have their own special playful moodlet associated with their trait.
Clumsy Sims are more likely to get electrocuted when repairing electronics.

My Sims do it since the patch right before EL came out. I used MCCC to disallow mean and mischievous interactions. It's still a problem because I played without mods yesterday after the patch. I was glad when it got updated.

I use MCCC, UI cheats extension, Scarlet's All Year Plants and Faster Uni Homework. (faster knitting maybe)

I don't think it's a mod. It does it without mods. I used a mod to fix it.

"AnnLee87;c-17647141" wrote:
My Sims do it since the patch right before EL came out. I used MCCC to disallow mean and mischievous interactions. It's still a problem because I played without mods yesterday after the patch. I was glad when it got updated.

I use MCCC, UI cheats extension, Scarlet's All Year Plants and Faster Uni Homework. (faster knitting maybe)

I don't think it's a mod. It does it without mods. I used a mod to fix it.

oH I have another story related with this parenthood pack and this is why I disabled this pack for a few of years. I guess it happened in 2018 just after I purchased this pack on origin sale. I was having a bright and cheerful traits man sim who brought his youngest sister since she had been a baby. He was always laughing and smiling, and loved his spouse so much. But after installing the parenthood pack, he didn't have any bad trait but suddenly he started to use forbidden words loudly to his spouse. It was unbelievable. When this man was a baby, there was NO Toddler in the Sims 4, so he grew up to the child straightaway from the baby. But when he was a teenager, he got a little sister and he looked after her so lovely and also he was on top grade in school too. I couldn't believe what he was doing to his spouse without Reason. There's No evil face or other mean interaction. It happened with his own free will. He was my best sim and I couldn't endure his misbehaving any more. I eventually disabled the parenthood pack but his misbehaving was continued even after disabling the pack. I had to go back to the old save hasn't been played with parenthood pack. So far,he is still bright and cheerful as usual. Now I'm afraid of activating this pack. :(

"Chazzzy;c-17647257" wrote:
I bet it has something to do with either the reputation system or the manners thing since both came with Parenthood

https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dmVc3i3JSfU/X1MaKOSnAzI/AAAAAAAACn0/wh2u5V-h_qMnL215Ep2yM46EPWZZ9TA9ACLcBGAsYHQ/w456-h500/12.jpg
This is T daddy sim's traits and Reputation. He is created in CAS as young adult,
so there was no way to learn the manner things without childhood sim life.



https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bJCrkVvQjTg/X1MaQ0Qg_lI/AAAAAAAACn8/Tp_fe6E4TrorftYbVmsjD1AiGH6-tyLpgCLcBGAsYHQ/w179-h304/14.jpg
This is the relationship with his T daddy sim. It was fully filled but now it's a little bit less. This is from T daddy's misbehaving.



https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qNPWzvaBNzw/X1MaKRhnyyI/AAAAAAAACn4/uk-aUHKWL30ZFpNit392nmGCoA9o38xqgCLcBGAsYHQ/w524-h781/13.jpg
This is P son's traits and reputation.


https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-QPOTBrn2BzA/X1MeTGjCVgI/AAAAAAAACoQ/0R_FkkJeOr0rb9AfvyyutYaMgVI-EXamgCLcBGAsYHQ/w489-h625/15.jpg
This is T daddy sim's skill list. He completed parenting skill from taking care of his 3 kids.


Still have no idea what's wrong with them. T daddy sim never be offensive with his other kids.


One thing is that I usually don't age up to adult, so his kids are young adult and the daddy sim is still young adult.

That’s quite a few mods, so might have something to do with one of those. Maybe that mod you have that adjusts Parenthood phases has something to do with it ??‍♀️

"popstarsley;c-17647340" wrote:
That’s quite a few mods, so might have something to do with one of those. Maybe that mod you have that adjusts Parenthood phases has something to do with it ??‍♀️

Some are small script mods that I really need. There's no any story mod or other big mods change the sims 4 system. It has been started after growing up to young adults and I installed it in their teenage. Daddy sim didn't do anything nasty when they were teenagers with this mod but anyway, now I don't need it any more. I will try to take it out and have a look.. thank you. ;)

"Jeansoo;c-17647124" wrote:

"AmTk86;c-17646596" wrote:
I’ve had a similar problem with sims just being nasty to one another for no reason. If you play with mods do you mind listing them to see if we have any of the same ones? This may be a mod issue since other players haven’t complained. Although I don’t have a fix for you, if you make use of the reset object cheat you can prevent them from finishing the interaction so their relationship won’t take a hit.

Here's my mod list. Thank you.::)
I've no idea which mods can cause this issue. :(
I don't use MCCC.

Cien - No EA Lashes V5 For - For All
FalseHope_DisabledEnvironmentIdles
Fogity_HiddenHighlight
LittleMsSam_NoSickDirtySadHungryPets
LukeSimoleon_MagicIsFun_Hi
MonoChaos_NoMoreParenthoodPhases
More_CAS_Columns_(4_Columns)
MSFasterFoodAndDrink CatsDogs Addon
MSFasterHygieneALLINONE
MSQSIMS_No Autonomous_Drinking
MTS scumbumbo Keep Instruments In Inventory
MTS_bjnicol_1917715_FAH57_EatFasterAndPreferTables
MTS_dhikaodonk_1854280_dhikaodonk_VampirePowerWeaknessBugFix
MTS_egureh_1653365_NoAutoRudeFlirtyEnchantingHilariousGreetings
MTS_itasan2_1891330_Ita_ShowSimInfo_ScriptAndPackageV3.8.1
MTS_LittleMsSam_1733783_ShimrodLessMusicalChairs_V4_UpdatedbyLittleMsSam30112017
MTS_LittleMsSam_1891427_MTS_Scumbumbo_SetFiltersOnPaintingsByReference_UpdatedByLittleMsSam
MTS_Manderz0630_1776493_ShimrodPregnantWalkDisabled_V5
MTS_Manderz0630_1945409_ShimrodEnergizedWalkDisabled_V4
MTS_Manderz0630_1945410_ShimrodConfidentWalkDisabled_V4
MTS_PolarBearSims_1729924_Teen_Adult_Romance
MTS_RedRidingCat_1761866_StopGrowlingDFChanged
MTS_scripthoge_1458680_NoFatness
MTS_scripthoge_1458681_NoMuscles
No Instant Upgrade Delay
No_More_Random_Illness
nyandesu_optionalvampireweaknesses
ShimrodFacialOverlaysLessSmiling
ShimrodKissNeckForAdults_V2
Tmex-AllCheats
tmex-ObjectDestroyFix
UI_Cheats_Extension_v1.19
Wiggler_DisableAutomaticFameQuirks

Sorry I’m a bit late. The only mods we have in common are NoSickPets, All cheats, and UI cheats. I’m sure this isn’t a parenthood thing. For full context for my situation, I was playing out a storyline that required me to use a lot of mean interactions (I don’t usually do that). All of my problems started after I canceled the neighborhood brawl holiday in the middle of it, suddenly all my sims were being mean to one another even though NONE of them have bad traits or character values. I would turn my head for a second and my two YA sister sims (Who had a full relationship bar) were getting into fights MULTIPLE TIMES. Luckily the fighting has stopped but I still have to babysit my sims to keep them from absolutely tanking relationships while I’m not looking. I tend to make my families rather close so all of them tend to have full bar relationships, but I played another house hold and invited this family to a wedding, they autonomously get into an argument and when I go back in their household, their relationship dropped like 40 points. It’s ridiculous.