Do you like Wants/Fears more than Whims?

Whims were better. They didn't always make sense but you could dismiss them. I don't like how wants are tied to fears. If you don't want to fulfil a specific want you get punished with a fear. But you can't dismiss the want. Another downside is you have to spend aspiration points to get rid of the wants/fears easily. The entire point of whims and wants is to earn a few extra aspiration points. What's the point if you have to spend those points to get rid of unwanted wants and fears.
Also the broken on/off switch in the option should be a top priority to fix because fears are horrible badly tuned. Not everyone is constantly unhappy with their job. High job levels should not get a fear of a dead end job. And if they overcome a fear, this fear should be gone for good, or at least for a very long time.

I really wish they would just have updated whims to work with more packs instead of these fears which make the game unplayable.