Hey heyAnyone know why whoever i ask to join me at the hospital to be there while my sim gives birth always leaves as soon as they arrive?Would be nice if the Father of the child hung around!!! hahadoes this happen to everyone else???

It might be the time of day. If he has a job and its his work hours, maybe that's why he's leaving right away. At least I've had that with club gatherings. My dad's always stay, might be because they're always part of the household I'm playing, and won't go to work without me telling them to?

This has been happening in my game for years. If the Sim is in your household and you're controlling them, then they'll stay for the birth but if it's a NPC that you've invited, they leave as soon as they hit the lot. Pretty annoying.

"Simmerville;c-17193886" wrote:Mine normally stay, but I need to direct them as they quickly change focus. Yesterday a dad watching the birth suddenly walked over to the next room to watch a poster (!) while his wife was giving birth... I never brought a sim who is not part of the household, though (if possible). And I never ask anyone to join, I just click the pregnant female, choose "give birth at hospital" and "join", then I can choose from relations the way you do when someone is traveling. Oh my, I never tried to bring a full household, just 1 sim - next birth I'll try to bring a full crowd, LOL.That's not possible. I wish it was, though. :/

"AyKooChao;c-17193887" wrote:"Simmerville;c-17193886" wrote:Mine normally stay, but I need to direct them as they quickly change focus. Yesterday a dad watching the birth suddenly walked over to the next room to watch a poster (!) while his wife was giving birth... I never brought a sim who is not part of the household, though (if possible). And I never ask anyone to join, I just click the pregnant female, choose "give birth at hospital" and "join", then I can choose from relations the way you do when someone is traveling. Oh my, I never tried to bring a full household, just 1 sim - next birth I'll try to bring a full crowd, LOL.That's not possible. I wish it was, though. :/It's not possible in RL, either. I have been at the hospital for four of my grandchildren's birth. My daughter was having a C-Section (which is what I liken the hospital birth in the game to) and I had to stay in the room, while my son-in-law was with her in the OR. It's not easy waiting alone.

Sim autonomy in general doesn't make a lot of sense. it isn't just watching child birthing, it goes through a lot of things: so say your sim is dangerously tired and needs to sleep but you got a cofeee maker downstairs. the sim doesn't go to sleep like it is a lower priority order or something, no your sim goes for the coffee maker instead!Say your fridge is full of fantastic home cooked food, some of it quality style gourmet stuff, but there is a grill outside. so instead of getting something nice from the fridge, they go for the grill instead, places the food in their inventory or on a table outside. so before long that food spoils. the next morning, a hungry sim comes down and grabs a spoiled burger, eats it instead of cleaning it up. So yeah, some pretty twisted autonomy priorities going on.

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16 Replies

moppy14w
Seasoned Ace
6 years ago
I've had the father stay. It's been a while since I played a birth though, so not entirely sure a patch hasn't changed things.
Kathykins
Seasoned Ace
6 years ago
It might be the time of day. If he has a job and its his work hours, maybe that's why he's leaving right away. At least I've had that with club gatherings. My dad's always stay, might be because they're always part of the household I'm playing, and won't go to work without me telling them to?
Meka3211
Seasoned Ace
6 years ago
This has been happening in my game for years. If the Sim is in your household and you're controlling them, then they'll stay for the birth but if it's a NPC that you've invited, they leave as soon as they hit the lot. Pretty annoying.
Simmerville
Legend
6 years ago
Mine normally stay, but I need to direct them as they quickly change focus. Yesterday a dad watching the birth suddenly walked over to the next room to watch a poster (!) while his wife was giving birth... I never brought a sim who is not part of the household, though (if possible). And I never ask anyone to join, I just click the pregnant female, choose "give birth at hospital" and "join", then I can choose from relations the way you do when someone is traveling. Oh my, I never tried to bring a full household, just 1 sim - next birth I'll try to bring a full crowd, LOL.
AyKooChao
6 years ago
"Simmerville;c-17193886" wrote:
Mine normally stay, but I need to direct them as they quickly change focus. Yesterday a dad watching the birth suddenly walked over to the next room to watch a poster (!) while his wife was giving birth... I never brought a sim who is not part of the household, though (if possible). And I never ask anyone to join, I just click the pregnant female, choose "give birth at hospital" and "join", then I can choose from relations the way you do when someone is traveling. Oh my, I never tried to bring a full household, just 1 sim - next birth I'll try to bring a full crowd, LOL.

That's not possible. I wish it was, though. :/
Simmerville
Legend
6 years ago
"AyKooChao;c-17193887" wrote:
"Simmerville;c-17193886" wrote:
Mine normally stay, but I need to direct them as they quickly change focus. Yesterday a dad watching the birth suddenly walked over to the next room to watch a poster (!) while his wife was giving birth... I never brought a sim who is not part of the household, though (if possible). And I never ask anyone to join, I just click the pregnant female, choose "give birth at hospital" and "join", then I can choose from relations the way you do when someone is traveling. Oh my, I never tried to bring a full household, just 1 sim - next birth I'll try to bring a full crowd, LOL.

That's not possible. I wish it was, though. :/

Ouch, would be fun, though! Thanks!
Alyssa12307
6 years ago
i think i might be missing something here-- how do you invite a sim to watch a birth? i never realised that was an option
AyKooChao
6 years ago
When you tell the pregnant Sim to have the baby at the hospital, click "join" and you'll get to choose one Sim to go with them.
keekee53
Seasoned Ace
6 years ago
"Ashystar;d-964204" wrote:
Hey hey

Anyone know why whoever i ask to join me at the hospital to be there while my sim gives birth always leaves as soon as they arrive?
Would be nice if the Father of the child hung around!!! haha

does this happen to everyone else???

Yes. If the father is not part of the household he usually leaves right away. It is so annoying. Why bother asking anyone to join if they are just going to leave. This has been an issue forever.
GalacticGal
Legend
6 years ago
"AyKooChao;c-17193887" wrote:
"Simmerville;c-17193886" wrote:
Mine normally stay, but I need to direct them as they quickly change focus. Yesterday a dad watching the birth suddenly walked over to the next room to watch a poster (!) while his wife was giving birth... I never brought a sim who is not part of the household, though (if possible). And I never ask anyone to join, I just click the pregnant female, choose "give birth at hospital" and "join", then I can choose from relations the way you do when someone is traveling. Oh my, I never tried to bring a full household, just 1 sim - next birth I'll try to bring a full crowd, LOL.

That's not possible. I wish it was, though. :/

It's not possible in RL, either. I have been at the hospital for four of my grandchildren's birth. My daughter was having a C-Section (which is what I liken the hospital birth in the game to) and I had to stay in the room, while my son-in-law was with her in the OR. It's not easy waiting alone.