how can i find deceased relatives urn??

Not all ghosts will spawn an urn, unfortunately. LittleMsSam has a mod that allows you spawn an urn for a ghost, but it has to be on the same lot, IIRC. I think you can use use MCC's Teleport World Sim to teleport most ghosts to you lot.

EDIT: Was just double checking how LittleMsSim's mod worked, which was lucky as I was wrong about how it works. You need a gravestone on the lot. Click on the gravestone, And it will give you the option of either releasing all ghosts or getting a n urn for a specific one. The ghost doesn't need to be on the lot and as far as I can tell you don't need to know them.

If you dont have an urn or gravestone, you can find one in the debug objects

You probably don't have those urns, unless you were playing the sims at the time of their death. Chances are the ghosts have been culled as well. I hope the mods posted earlier might help you, but kind of fear it might be tricky to do this kind of thing after time has passed.

Was just double checking how LittleMsSam's mod worked, which was lucky as I was wrong about how it works. You need a gravestone on the lot. Click on the gravestone and it will give you the option of either releasing all ghosts or getting an urn for a specific one. The ghost doesn't need to be on the lot and as far as I can tell you don't need to know them.

If you don't have an urn or gravestone, you can find one in the debug objects

"WaytoomanyUIDs;c-17734806" wrote:
Was just double checking how LittleMsSam's mod worked, which was lucky as I was wrong about how it works. You need a gravestone on the lot. Click on the gravestone and it will give you the option of either releasing all ghosts or getting an urn for a specific one. The ghost doesn't need to be on the lot and as far as I can tell you don't need to know them.

If you don't have an urn or gravestone, you can find one in the debug objects

I have the same desire. Can you tell me the name of the mod? I looked through her expansive list of mods and can't figure out which one that is :D

As @WaytoomanyUIDs The only way I know to do that is Lil Ms Sam's mod. I have it in my game all the time because it is sooo useful. Unfortunately if your sim does NOT die on the active lot, there will not be a gravestone. Also, if sims have been dead too long, the game might clean it up and remove the ghosts. You can probably turn that off under the game settings, or MCCC can do it. MCCC also has their own, more efficient cleaner that you will also need to mess with if you have it installed. The MCCC cleaner overrides the game's cleaner.

@SimsLady2000 The mod is a part of the Random Small mods group. (They've all been updated for the recent patch already). You just download them from google drive and remove the ones you don't want. The two things you need from the file are the script file and the package file called LittleMsSam_RSM_ReleaseAllTheGhosts.ts4script and .package. Here is the link:

https://littlemssam.tumblr.com/post/619989464091082752/random-small-mods-sometimes-mods-are-sooo-small

Thank you so much lzbthnndgls and waytoomanyUIDs for the tips.