How much realness do you try to incorporate into your game?

I play somewhat realistic. i am ok with cheats but i dont always cheat. i love supernatural so a lot of my game play ends up with some kind of supernatural thing going on. but as for the sims themselves even if its a vampire or an alien they have real emotion and go through things. i like to put a spin on real life issues in the sims world. like how they handle death, falling in love, unexpected pregnancy, dealing with depression, money struggles, just different things. it can be a normal human sim or a supernatural in my game. i tend to play however i feel with when im playing the sims lives out. the more i play a sims life the more i feel their life becomes their own. and whether is more realistic or fantasy it just depends on whats on my mind and what the sim is like and how their environment changes. like if they fall in love with a vampire, or get abducted or something or if they just spend their life married and taking care of kids while their spouse works. thats the good thing about sims theres so many fun ways to play.