I Thought There Was a Trait For That …

Completing the 'Serial Romantic' aspiration gives your sim the 'Player trait. No more jealousy or consequences for infidelity.

"Netzspannung;c-16908109" wrote:
Completing the 'Serial Romantic' aspiration gives your sim the 'Player trait. No more jealousy or consequences for infidelity.

Ah, that must be where I saw it! Thank you. I think I'll give my star's interest that trait and use MCCC to complete it, since I don't want her to betray him in the long run. Wait? What am I talking about that would be drama for sure. LOL

I only completed this aspiration twice, it is difficult for me playing a sim like that. The sim really has to be a 'playa' before he/she earns the actual trait. At the same time it is fun breaking old patterns. Try it, you may find it a nice change.

"Netzspannung;c-16908142" wrote:
I only completed this aspiration twice, it is difficult for me playing a sim like that. The sim really has to be a 'playa' before he/she earns the actual trait. At the same time it is fun breaking old patterns. Try it, you may find it a nice change.

No, I won't feel a nice change. I play my Values, and that goes entirely against said Values. I can count on one hand how many divorces have occurred in my game, and how many moments of infidelity. I've been playing since Sims2, just to give you a time reference. Just for grins and giggles, when I panned the camera around in one household back in Sims2, the Dad was interacting with the live-in Nanny I'd created and decided to let that relationship develop, just to see how it would play out. Disaster. He ended up getting caught by his wife and she kicked him out of his house. The five children cried and were totally inconsolable. Made me feel like a monster. I started them again in a new neighborhood.

In Sims3, my singer Sim's fiancée flirted with his brother-in-law in front of the entire family on Gift-Giving Day! That was it. I had also created her, especially for him, in CAS, too. She got put into the bin so fast it would leave your head spinning. She's still in the bin! I never uninstalled Sims3. The Sim he did end up marrying abused their infant son (autonomously). That was a no-brainer for me. They fought and broke up. I quickly went into Edit Town and moved her into her own apartment, so that she wouldn't be able to take the baby with her. He caught some flack for the divorce, too, being a 5-star celebrity. But he sued for slander and won. He ended up getting together with the live-Nanny he hired (again a Sim I created for him) and they went on to have a happy marriage, and four more children.

I much prefer breaking things off before marriage occurs. But again, that's my Values. It may be Old School and some may feel it's intolerant, but I'm looking ahead to the life beyond this one.

Thank you again on where I can find the Trait I need. I just don't want Tillie to suffer, or Erik, either because he's ridiculously famous and he loves his fans, and they him. I can use the MCCC mod to have her achieve said aspiration, and then switch her back to the aspiration I gave her originally. :) o:) :)

"kalaksed;c-16908604" wrote:
just want to point out that jealousy can still happen with that trait. but not aimed at the sim with the trait. my 'main' household, both parents have the trait (they've got almost all the non-vampire aspiration traits because they've been around forever. and one's an alien, so she can't get the vampire ones without cheating) and i had them both fool around with the same person while they were working on the last part of that aspiration. once they both got the 'player' trait, the wife fooled around with the target sim in front of the husband... and he got angry about it. turns out he was mad that target sim was flirting with his wife, not that his wife was flirting with target sim. if his wife had been flirting with anyone he didn't have a romantic relationship with, he would have been totally cool with it

So, she may still get all sad, as she does now over his fans fawning all over him? Nuts.

There was also a buyable trait through the aspirations rewards for Sims 3 if you played that. Could be that you're remembering a combination of the Sims 3 trait and the serial romantic trait. I did that with pool toys. I was convinced there were pool floats in Sims 4 until someone pointed out that it was a Sims 3 thing :/

Yeah, I played Sims3 from its release until the summer before Sims4 came out. Yikes.

"kalaksed;c-16909077" wrote:
@GalacticGal yeah, you'll want your star to have the trait, not the girlfriend, if it's the fans flirting with the star. if it's them flirting with girlfriend, you want the girlfriend to have the trait. and, either way, if one of the sims involved also has a romantic interest with one of the fans somehow, they'll get jealous of that fan's flirting if they flirt with the sim's partner, but won't be mad at the partner (since they're 'safe' because of the trait)

...um, that made sense, right?

Thank you for this added bit of information. I was going to give it to the 'girlfriend' since she's the one who gets so sad whenever fans approach my star. The fans aren't flirting with her, they're flirting with my star. I'm just trying to orchestrate it so this couple could have a real relationship. I'm not exactly ready for him to 'retire'. LOL

@GalacticGal If you want to add the player trait to one of your sims without completing the aspiration you could try to use the
cheat --> traits.equip_trait Player

"Katiardguez;c-16909848" wrote:
@GalacticGal If you want to add the player trait to one of your sims without completing the aspiration you could try to use the
cheat --> traits.equip_trait Player

Thank you. I just might do that. :) Would you mind telling me just how to access this? I don't often use in game cheats. I presume I have to enable testhingcheats true, first. Then is is just a matter of Shift-click on the Sim to find it? Please and thank you in advance.