Inappropriate behavior??

Yeah it's weird that Sims do that. I'd like this to fixed in a patch or something.

Yes it is weird, and annoying, but if you purchase the 'welcome anywhere' (it might not be called exactly that!) reward trait for 500 points your Sims can do what they want in any house.

Thanks y’all. But can Toddlers purchase rewards?

I always hated that in sims games. I haven’t tried having family split into two households in S4 yet, but I have in S3 and it was relentless. My sims would go to their grandma’s house, and they would get yelled at for taking food out of the fridge, using the shower, and sleeping. It’s not like they walked into some stranger’s house.

Does the game track family relationships across households? If not, I suppose you could do those things in a good friend’s house.

I ran into trouble with the inappropriate thing when having a cooking club. When hosting a gathering at the active sim’s house, guests would do whatever they wanted, but when I went to another sims house during a gathering and if I dared to open their refrigerator... watch out! But the whole purpose of the club is to cook at eachother’s house.

I say all ‘inappropriate’ restrictions should go away when you reach a certain friendship level, such as good friends, and if actions are done through a club.

"Destin2016;c-16643020" wrote:
Thanks y’all. But can Toddlers purchase rewards?

Hmmm, I dunno. I guess not as they don't have aspirations. But I wonder if you buy the parent/carer the trait and have them put the tot to bed that would count as an interaction by the parent and therefore not be punished…?

Thanks @loubyloulou. I’ll try that!

It may be a bug related to the one we had some time ago, where woohoo partners would get reprimanded for using a Sim's bed during woohoo.

The game should really make an exception with family members' or boyfriends/girlfriends' homes. I wanted my sim to visit her father for new years eve, but I really had to add her to the household for two sim days so she could actually sleep there. Or when another sim visited her boyfriend, I had to buy the always welcome trait so she could actually stay the night there.

It would be nice if there was an option to ask another sim to stay the night at their house, as it's also possible the other way around.

I miss the friendly 'invite to stay the night' as well. Why it is considered a romantic interaction only is beyond me. I guess it would make sense if family members had to be at least friends to freeload in each other's homes since, realistically, not all families are on good terms.

"Nindigo;c-16643150" wrote:
I miss the friendly 'invite to stay the night' as well. Why it is considered a romantic interaction only is beyond me. I guess it would make sense if family members had to be at least friends to freeload in each other's homes since, realistically, not all families are on good terms.

@Nindigo Agreed. There are no sleepovers or staying at someone's house. I would like to see this feature come back.