The biggest issue I am having is that prior to the ghost update you could simply release the ashes from the urn and it disappears or release their spirit from the tombstone and it disappears and still be able to use The Book of Life to bring them back. From what I'm observing or understanding now is that once you let their spirit go, it's done forever. I agree that EA did not think this through and either needs to confirm this is a bug or the new changes as you have pointed out for the BoL is as intended now.
