Full Autonomy On! I don't like to micromanage, to me that's just like being in Second Life. In Second Life your avatar does absolutely nothing until you control it to do something, it will literally just stand in the place you stopped controlling it. That's not a game to me.
I want to watch my sims and see what they want to do, how they're feeling, etc. Now just because I have autonomy on, doesn't mean I don't cancel out things that I don't want them to be doing, and I also simply don't put interactive objects in their house that they're obsessed with. I almost never, ever have a stereo or radio in the houses, if they want to dance .... I'll take them to the bar. If they need to use a computer, I take them to a library or internet cafe. They need some fitness? .... off to the gym they go. Now if I could only release the stoooopid phone from their appendages! LOL