I only have DHD so my vote would be biased. :smile:
The career in DHD is really fun and can be challenging. Some people have complained about bugs during some of the career gameplay but I haven't experienced that personally.
My builds tend to be very similar and I don't often step out if my comfort zone when it comes to decorating, but having to decorate a Sims home with a particular set of guidelines and budgets really helped me to try out some different styles and use BB items that I wouldn't normally use (I'm no longer afraid to add a bit if colour to my Sim's walls haha).
Although I haven't played the career aspect of the pack a lot, the BB items have definitely made the pack worth they money for me too.
Paranormal looks really fun too and is absolutely on my "soon-to-buy" list. Everyone who owns it seems to enjoy it.
When I'm having trouble to decide which pack to get I usually read up on them on Carl's Guides, which is super helpful for me!
Let us know which one you choose!
P.S. Thai green curry and lemongrass soup is never wrong. :smile: