Probably an Unpopular Opinion but New fears system is horrid

As my title says, I find the new fears system horrific. I only get one. Its the fear a dead end job one and even when it is possible to combat the fear, it immediately comes back, even if the job your sim has is/or should be their dream job. I've got a constant stressed moodlet (or three in some cases) from a fear that reoccurs so often that the whole household is stressed, tense and sad. I wish, at the very least, wants and fears were separate so that I could keep whims/wants and get rid of a poorly thought out fears system by disabling it.