Reconciling After Divorce

I'm playing a Legacy family, currently. The woman he selected ended up being an Elder, and I kid you not she changed instantaneously (and I don't mean she morphed into an Elder) right after they took their vows. I suddenly realized she had GRAY hair. After the wedding event was over (and it wouldn't allow me to do this during) I had him invite his bride to "move-in" Really, EA? I mean, seriously? (This should be pretty much automatic.) Once I could control her I took a peek at her stats. She was 101 days old! This was already my second attempt at my legacy, so I was pretty much bummed out. So, I did the only logical thing. I had my Founder pour on the charm to the woman he almost asked to marry him, before Maddie the hag appeared, and then had him move her in. I almost waited until Madalyn Haley passed away. Glad I didn't as she lasted until she was 110 days old. When I moved in Sawyer, she had 15 days before she turns into an elder. Phew! My Founder made the mistake of coming home from work one night and he kissed Sawyer on the cheek, in front of Madalyn. Oopsie, what she ever ANGRY. Her moodlet showed she was jealous. In fact, she died still angry (not from the anger, just to be clear, it stated she died of old age.) I let her vent. I let her rant and rave, I let her take a cold shower. Nothing helped. Had she not perished later that evening on the bathroom floor, who knows? My Founder is very sad.