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3 years ago

Romantic preferences changes

Which sims are you going to change with this update? premades or otherwise?

as for myself
Simmingals finally getting to ace this game wooo yes thats happening

meanwhile Heckings will no longer fall in love with Nancy Landgraab

considering making Lily Feng aromantic cause she has unflirty trait
but I think she will be still up for woohoo
(given how she and victor seemed to enjoy that when Patina was visiting)

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  • "BettyNewbie1;c-18156655" wrote:
    "Simmingal;c-18156324" wrote:
    heckings into men only (although I might add one of them being ok with woohoo women because babies hmmm)


    How does being O.K. with woohoo but not romance with a woman work? Don't you need a romantic relationship to woohoo. Is this no longer mattering


    I mean theres the thing with update that your sims can ask to be woohoo partners or whatever if theyre good friends

    this is so aromantic sims can exist without being asexual as example

    in this scenario i am thinking it would be more like say brant and brent want baby

    but since they're both male its not possible (well realistically ofc i could go to cas n all that jazz but you know)

    therefore they need lady to be mother to child

    therefore at least one of them would have to be willing to make the said child with the lady

    in which if i set the woohoo preference to no women that would just fall apart really
  • @Simmingal Thanks for telling me. I missed that! This will be great for surrogacy.
  • > @Simmingal said:
    > Is there any couples people consider like straight as it gets
    >
    > I kinda struggle setting that limitation :lol:
    >
    > I was thinking about Roswells but then I realized i might want to change that :lol:
    >
    > I wonder if i should just set straight couples like straight but exploring romantically hmmm

    I would say Arun and Jesminder Bheeda, probably Nancy and Geoffrey Landgraab as well. I kind of imagined some werewolves townies having preferences such as Rory being a Lesbian/Sapphic and Lou as Bi maybe.
  • I was only going to bother with the sims who had a strong orientation in my game, but since my usual "Waiting for the mods to update" activity is to work on my save template (which has no CC) I've actually given them to several. For the most part, I've just decided if they're base interested in men or women (or both or neither) and left open to explore alone, but a few are getting more concrete preferences.

    So far, Morgyn has ended up aro/ace, Don is straight as a pin, and everyone in Partihouse is open to whatever.
  • "starrylima;c-18156759" wrote:
    > @Simmingal said:
    > Is there any couples people consider like straight as it gets
    >
    > I kinda struggle setting that limitation :lol:
    >
    > I was thinking about Roswells but then I realized i might want to change that :lol:
    >
    > I wonder if i should just set straight couples like straight but exploring romantically hmmm

    I would say Arun and Jesminder Bheeda, probably Nancy and Geoffrey Landgraab as well. I kind of imagined some werewolves townies having preferences such as Rory being a Lesbian/Sapphic and Lou as Bi maybe.


    Ah, see, in my game, Nancy Landgraab is a power lesbian whose marriage to Geoffrey is a sham. (At this point, she is an adult, Geoffrey is an elder, and Malcolm is a YA.) She runs a corporation while he stays home and donates her money to charity, and mopes around about how Malcolm turned out. (Malcolm is a villainous secret agent who spends his free time trolling on the internet.) After work Nancy usually goes out for drinks with her bestie Clara Bjergsen and they hit on attractive young women at the bar. (Meanwhile, Bjorn is at home falling in love with the au pair and writing gloomy poetry.)
  • "Amapola76;c-18156777" wrote:
    After work Nancy usually goes out for drinks with her bestie Clara Bjergsen


    Oh the Bjergsengraabs are real
    there is certainly reason why Bjergsens are enemy of vlad and landgraabs enemy of goth it was all predetermined by fate
  • I cleared up my old sims saves that I put in the Gallery due to the necessary CAS changes after I got the update. :| I upgraded my 20th Century sims a bit with the new CAS changes & resaved them in the Gallery. I will be slowly continuing this with each of my different timeline game saves. I only have 5 more game saves to go until all my sims are the way I want them to be. :o
    Yup, I'm very controlling when it comes to my sims. :D :p ;)
  • I have not installed the update yet (for issues related mostly to wants/fears) even though I really wanted to especially for the sexual orientation thing.

    I don't really care much for the premades but I'm really excited about the fact that I can finally make Abel's aromantic asexual orientation "official". I'm ace myself so naturally I appreciate the options but with Abel it's more than that. He's an in-game born sim and I didn't have any particular orientation in mind for him (he's Active, Mean, Hot-headed) but then he showed like no inclination for anything intimate via autonomy or whims. That is considering my mod setting which e.g. eliminates idle chatting so everyone's more "aggressive" for anything, yet Abel seemed to always dodge romantic things. It was very natural for me to start roleplaying him as aroace, yet I always disliked the possibility that if someone of my more flirty sims would autonomously approach him, he most likely would accept.
    So, really excited that I can now properly roleplay him without a need for mods or player intervention. (But, alas, I'll still need to wait before downloading this update.)


    Abel: "Why do you people need to bother me with these suggestions when I only want to dance?"
    https://i.imgur.com/gsdOyUE.jpg
  • I realized Camille Soto had husband in wedding stories trailer so I edited it so Dominique is only into women but Camille is into both men and women cause that seemed more accurate


    and yes re editing these in now :lol:
  • I tend to ignore the premade Sims, unless my Sims marry them, so I will leave them be.
    I probably won't do preferences for my Sims, because I usually keep them with my other Sims I created, or have either gender flirt with a premade until they click.

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