Actually I notice sims will choose a smaller kitchen over a larger one - so it is best just to have one in a house until they give us an ep that offers programming for apartments. It is a bad idea to try and do any form of apt like living until the programming for that is in the game.
Keep in mind - just because you know how apts are supposed to work - the Sims do not. They need to be taught that stuff which programming is their teachers. No matter how bad we want something - means until programmers make it happen - we will have to wait to do those things.
