Sims 4 feels exhausting to play.

Sims constantly dropping actions I queue for them happens alot for me too. I don't use mods so know not related to that. Think it's because they are too focused on items/actions in the game such as computers, playing in rain/puddles, etc. and since likes/dislikes have come out I find sims who like fitness stop what they are supposed to be doing (eating, sleeping, etc with very low hunger/energy bars) and go back to exercise. So I haven't been using the likes/dislikes as much as I thought I would because if I am not constantly watching, they die from the very low needs bars. I also still have the frequent need for them to go get water to drink and they drop whatever action queued for them to do. This is one of my frustrations when playing. But I haven't played in a while as I have been too busy in real life, so if any of this is fixed yet I wouldn't know. The water drinking was fixed for a while but came back.