so overall my game is playing great, no real problems or major glitches... however-my female sim has the soulmate aspiration. I've completed the first two sections of it, and am now on the 3rd part. ...
I did exactly what Samedi said, that was actually my plan as soon as I saw that as a goal, I thought "How to make my sim angry..." luckily being a total plum to a random townie works like a charm.