The Butler option doesn't show in Services?

Yeah, I had the same problem. Turns out I was still using that mod from way back during the release days, that added gardeners and repairmen, even though we already got both from a patch.

I never noticed, because my Sims rarely garden, and my Sim's Handiness scores are either so high or I have enough disposable cash to simply replace the items, that I never really call Service NPCs and never went into that menu until I got Vintage Glamour.