I think a lot of simmers come off demanding and entitled instead of "just asking for things they would like in the game to tell their story". It's one thing to say "It's weird x is missing and hope it gets added before they move on to Sims 5 and kind of frustrates me", but it's another to say "I literally can't play the game without x, we've been begging and begging, and they don't listen to us. Why do they give us y? No one wants it. And I don't think z even belongs in the game" is another.