i had this Butler who only drank and watched tv one day my sim Nadia was whooing with her bf and the Butler watched when she showered he watched so I made him live in the basement suite and he got worse he’d watch her all day and this i still can’t explain he went and kissed her passionately and she rejected him I fired him and he now walks by the house comes over unannounced and is always inviting her places but I hav a new Butler who cleans cooks and sleeps so idk you’re problem plus he takes s care of the kids