What is 'Realism' play for you?

I don't really go for realism. I don't want kids, have never wanted kids, I'm in my thirties so I think I know for real. I also don't like aging turned on and I don't like any kid stage other than toddler - which I despise in real life lol. I also like playing large polygamous households, and my ocd is way too severe to deal with something like that in reality, for many many reasons. Among other things. So yeh. No realism for me, thank you. :D