Where do you take sims for dating or family activities to become closer?

I have found that if you want something for the whole family including toddlers you need to update the lots with specific furniture, potties and what not. My most inclusive lot for the entire family is a community space, I have designed it as a community center with day care and playground for children, gardening, lots of craft tables, painting, sales tables and food stalls. Sims can craft, buy and sell, do some gardening, talk to each other, eat and play. Another inclusive lot is a community pool with facilities for all ages. Beaches and parks are also great for the whole family. For adult sims dates, they go to restaurants, pubs, karaoke. Sometimes they just go to the neighbourhood skating rinks and then have some food and drinks from the food stalls. But like others have said, it depends on your sim and what their interests are.