Why Are My Friends Always Wanting To Move In With Me? Growing Together Being Weird

I think its just another feature that turns weird because it happens a lot. I assume it gets triggered (maybe with a random chance?) when your relationship with a sim is high enough - I’ve had one Sim wanting to move in after knowing them for 2 days. To me it feels the same like the feature where Sims will call and ask you to hangout - cute at first, annoying after a while and at some point tolerated.

"uquiuqui;c-18255008" wrote:
I think its just another feature that turns weird because it happens a lot. I assume it gets triggered (maybe with a random chance?) when your relationship with a sim is high enough - I’ve had one Sim wanting to move in after knowing them for 2 days. To me it feels the same like the feature where Sims will call and ask you to hangout - cute at first, annoying after a while and at some point tolerated.

Yeah exactly, I had a Sim I literally just friended the day before ask and I was like um no? ?? It just feels like they should've put some restrictions on it, like maybe if the household is under three sims or they don't have a spouse they're living with or something ?

"Future;c-18255072" wrote:
I’m just glad the devs were thoughtful enough to make “no” the first option because sometimes I click through those splash screens quickly.

I know ? I almost hit the 'yes' button accidently because I'm so used to it being the other way around ??

It's the same with Sims walking into your home uninvited and asking to be best friends. It's super annoying and makes it seriously awkward when my Sim refuses the offer. It harms what should have been a good, casual relationship because the one who was refused winds up holding a grudge.

"PruThistle;c-18255315" wrote:
It's the same with Sims walking into your home uninvited and asking to be best friends. It's super annoying and makes it seriously awkward when my Sim refuses the offer. It harms what should have been a good, casual relationship because the one who was refused winds up holding a grudge.

Oh yeah that's been happening a lot to me as well and it's equally awkward ??

I have sims who my sim has only met that day wanting to be BFFs! And several family members have asked to move in, even though the household is full. It’s annoying to have them hurt by having to refuse their request.

"MayaRose1138;c-18256855" wrote:
I have sims who my sim has only met that day wanting to be BFFs! And several family members have asked to move in, even though the household is full. It’s annoying to have them hurt by having to refuse their request.

Yeah I don't like that refusing gives a negative outcome to the relationship because I'm hardly ever going to agree to it and all of my friends are going to hate me ?

"MayaRose1138;c-18256855" wrote:
I have sims who my sim has only met that day wanting to be BFFs! And several family members have asked to move in, even though the household is full. It’s annoying to have them hurt by having to refuse their request.

We don't have to worry about turning them down now cause the last update gives us the option to have multiple best friends.

"ItsGamerRach;d-1007936" wrote:
I don't know if anyone else has noticed this or had a problem with it, but ever since I got Growing Together my sims friends are always asking to move in with me. Some of them are parts of big families too, and I just can't fit them all in my house ?? It was a cute addition at first but now everyone is ALWAYS asking to move in. It's getting old.

OMG I'm the opposite and my sims are chasing people around trying to get them to be roommates!! And then if they do say yes, they never turn up.

I disabled both with my callandvisittweak mod as I do not like them.