I use lumina height slider combined with the one linked in the second post. But I believe tired that one you have to scroll through the comments for the latest version updated? That one is from 2017.
It's been a while I had this I'm not sure. I just remember getting the latest from comments.?
However, I'm not a romance player and rarely have romance. Those are the most obvious interactions where the animations look really off because other than that it's not a lot of moments I can think of where sims are really touching to a point that the clipping and off animations are obvious. But it also depends on how high or low you go with the slider.
If you just want a bit of difference it's really not that noticable. I have gotten use to it and I barely notice. I LOVE height slider because I love the variety in shapes,sizes and heights. It makes them all feel different and unique. That's why I combine the two height sliders because I have tall sims, really tall sims, medium sims, average sims, short sims and really short sims.
Beware, the shorter you go the sims with not be visible on the little head icons of your sims lined up at the bottom of the screen. Or the tall ones head will go up where you cant see. But that's only if you go extreme.
One more tip I learned. Really tall or short sims will also start to sink into furniture or float above but preset body sims will not. So for example I had this really tall sim who was supposed to be a professional basketball ball player lol. But was so tall he would float over the chair. So I instead downloaded a preset tall height body. And applied it to him and used the height slider to go just a bit taller than the preset. No more floating or clipping issues and he sits fine in the chair.
Hope that wasn't confusing I tried to cover all aspects because it took me a while to learn how to work things the way I wanted but the results are satisfying. Love height slider.