I suspect you have an out of date or broken mod. This last patch was really hard on mods.
Do you have a lot? If you’ve checked the broken/updated mod list and updated everything on it, you might need to slowly add them back to figure out which one it is. Have people explained the 50-50 method? Take them out, delete the cache files, test. If it works, add back half, test.
If it breaks, it’s one of those. Delete the cache and test the other half.
If it doesn’t, those are probably okay, and add back half of what’s left. Test.
Repeat until you find which one(s) are broken.
If you haven’t checked the broken/updated mod list, that would be an easy place to start.
It looks like Crin found something in someone else's save over here: https://answers.ea.com/t5/Game-and-Mod-CC-Issues/Sims-4-Households-won-t-load-sent-back-to-map-after-update-no/m-p/11706259#M22980
If the mods thing doesn't pan out, you might have a glitchy Sim. (It looks like Temperance from Paranormal Stuff to me!)
