Is anyone here good at finding CC??

I don't know if this is really the right convo hole to put this question, but I have this character that often wears a lot of I guess girly things, but it's really hard to find things like that when they're either put behind an obnoxious paywall or perm limited to fem sims(cant change them in sims 4 studio), or mess up the anatomy mesh in-game.

I've scaled Pinterest up and down, had my friend search, and even went to so many other websites but for some reason It's so hard to find something that's either reliable or not for second life.
Idk if anyone on here is like a pro CC finder but I would genuinely love some help finding things. 


The attachments below aren't on point of what I'm asking for, but it's pretty similar + more in that category. Idk if there's a specific creator who does it or I just have to cherry pick (which I am fine with), but it's just so hard finding things that work for the kind of characters I have. 

I would commission/pay someone to make these things for me, but I have $3😭