This is what I came up with for you @bookloverblue:
Leather Jackets:
http://thesimscatalog.com/product/rebel-male-biker-jacket/
http://modthesims.info/d/533391
https://thesimscatalog.com/sims4/downloads/uncategorized/leather-jacket-2/
http://simsimionlymine.tistory.com/78
https://simbelieve.tumblr.com/post/156666535716/leather-bird-jacket-new-version-tagmessage-me
http://thosefuckingsims.tumblr.com/post/150913928977/a-simple-tattoo-and-recolor-of-the-base-game
There is this open jacket:
https://julietoon.tumblr.com/post/115979732020/open-leather-jacket-for-males-bare-chest
Which you can pair with this tee:
http://digbydoozle.tumblr.com/post/125926397056/so-this-one-is-a-crew-neck-t-shirt-that-you-can
Rhinestone Jacket:
http://www.jomsimscreations.fr/men-clothes.html
If you have Luxury Party, there is this flashy suit with the button up removed:
https://julietoon.tumblr.com/post/151068347675/male-luxury-suite-sparkly-suit-edited-by-julie-j
Big lapels:
https://www.thesimsresource.com/downloads/details/category/sims4-clothing-male-teenadultelder-formal/title/white-tuxedo/id/1290128/