fightmehelen17 For the crashing issue you're currently seeing, that's being tracked in the bug report here: [XB/PS] Console crashing after update 2.13
Please be sure to add your information into this bug thread to help us further track and review the issue, and if you can, please send your saves as requested in that thread.
For the issue with your preorder content, since that's purchased directly through the Sony storefront, we wouldn't have access to your billing or account information on your PlayStation, and any missing content that you've purchased would need to be looked into with PlayStation support.