[NEEDS SAVES] Sims 4: Crashing (console player)

I've been having this same issue for a while now.  It seems to fluctuate in frequency with the updates.  Around January/February of this year, it was crashing about 50% of the time that I traveled to somewhere or went to 'Manage World'.  Then around April/May, there was an update and the crashing became far more rare for a while.  Then, around September, after that month's update, the crashing began getting worse again.  Now, it crashes about 60% of the time when I try to load up a household or travel between places.

I have read the pinned document for what often creates these issues and I find it a bit alarming that some of the 'solutions' for this are things like 'use less items from the game', 'have fewer households', and 'have fewer relationships on your sims'.  While these might be acceptable as 'hold-over measures' until a true fix can be made, they should not be offered as 'solutions', as these are things that this game was made to do.  My current game represents years of developing lineages of generations of interesting families.  Homes that began as cheap little hovels and are now large estates.  The point of this game is to simulate and large and thriving world.  One that is sustainable on a PC, but it feels like I am being punished for buying this game on a console.  

Surely there are better fixes for this than 'make your game smaller with less things in it and fewer relationships'.

Having the same issue mine kicks me out takes back to Xbox home screen and glitches really bad too.xbox series s sometimes if I go into build mode samething kicks me right back to Xbox home screen.it has become so unplayable 

Yup same with mean it started happening after that last update.i can't even go into build mode with being kicked out back to Xbox home screen.