After working with an EA person last night I tried the following things with no success
- disabling virus protection/firewall
- running as an admin
- updating windows 7 (optional updates)
- running with the prompt "w -und"
- deleting all temporary files
- running a clean boot
- uninstalling and reinstalling sims 4
- searching for some hidden files that have to do with origin and then deleting them
- reparing the game
I'm getting the feeling the game just simply does not work. The ea specialist was supposed to email me a few more steps, but I never receieved it.