Household missing
I'm experiencing a similar issue, but not as bad or not exactly as bad as the poster. I'm writing this so it may help.
So far, I've only created households and lots for Willow Creek and Forgotton Hollow, but in both town/worlds I seem to be playing in perhaps three different "dimensions".
In Willow Creek, I want to play with Angelina Jolie, and I see my Raccoon household in their secret underground lair is there also, and an older version of the Goths and an older version of another household that also appear in another "newer" version of Willow Creek. If I choose to play the newer version of the Goths household in illow Creek, then my town appears to also include the Cluedo household, the BFF's in the newer lot I built for them, and the newer version of another household that can also be found as an older version of themselves in the same screen as the Angelina Jolie household.
In Forgotten Hollow, I have created a wife for Vlad's household, and households and newer builds for the empty houses. However, all of my households do not show up all at once. If I try to play with the Vatores, I will also see the Lot for the Greens household but Vlad appears to not have a wife anymore. If I instead try to play with my Collins household, Vlad's wife appears to be in his household, and an older version of the Vatores, but my Greens household is missing.
In my gameplay, if I am "missing" certain households that I have created, the EA versions of the lot will be appearing.
I hve been trying to figure out why, and what I think is happening is, because I had no clear understanding of the basic mechanics of how to start and continue play in the game in an orderly manner, I sometimes have been creating newer households on an older load game screen, and then if I choose to play a newer load game screen those new lots I had created are not there.
I have tried evicting the Raccons and Jolie households and attempted to move them into the newer load game screen lots but then they don't show up in my "Played Households/Not in world" list, not sure why.
Anyways, I have figued out that if I load my most recent gameplay from the load screen and build lots and create households and place them, being careful to continue to load each new gameplay from the most recent gamplay screen, then most of my households appear in that town view,, but if I want to play with Jolie or Raccoons I have to play from an older load game screen.
I have only been loading the game from the "Load Game" button, and have not yet ever pressed the "Play New Game" button on the main startup screen.
It's possible players like me, have been choosing various stages of gamplay from the various load game screen saves, which of course now I understand that this means we're playing in a bunch of different "time zones" as it were.
Now that I understand this, for me, the real bug is I don't know why Jolie and Raccoons households don't show up in my "Played households" screen and Sims seems to have culled Vlad's wife. I really hope my experience helps you, or other players. But the peson who is askng help seems more in trouble than me.
I play on Windows 7, lots of HD left, and never any mods or cc. All my own builds and no downloads.