my sims 4 wont update

@islandblossom92  Try going offline and back online in the EA App; the option is in the Settings menu in the upper-left corner of the window.

If that doesn't help, please clear the App's cache:

https://help.ea.com/en-us/help/faq/clear-cache-to-fix-problems-with-your-games/

and repair the game: open your game library, click Sims 4, and select Manage > Repair.  That should give you a fully updated game.