the sims 4 refuses to load after the life & death update
i redownloaded the sims recently, and my wifi was pretty terrible at the time. i loaded it up, and it worked perfectly. then steam was like, "oh nonono, u have 2 update the sims for the life & death update!!!" and i was like, "oh yeah sure let me do that". then, after i updated it, when i try to load up the game again the EA app says its preparing the game, then it just stops. it either opens the EA app and doesnt do anything, or crashes after i do it more than once. i think EA has some sort of beef with HP laptops, because other people not on HP laptops seem to have a fix. ive tried EVERYTHING. redownloading the sims, repairing the EA app, restarting my computer, changing the file permissions via. properties settings, changing the graphics settings, switching out from the DNS i use, repairing the EA app via. task manager, etc. IT WONT WORK!!!!!! and apparently my problem is unique because oh look, NOBODY else has posted about this!!! and my boyfriend, who has the exact same laptop model as i do, doesnt even play the sims so i cant even check with him and see if hes having the same issue. i dont have any extra monitors, no special graphics cards, nothing. just a run-of-the-mill HP laptop. can somebody please help??? like genuinely ive been salty about this for the past few days and have been looking EVERYWHERE for a fix, yet no prevail. (oh also FYI i dont use any antiviruses or VPNs, if you're gonna ask that. i just find them really annoying and they get in the way with the stuff i do.)