Multi-player works like **bleep**

So idk why but everytime i try to game together w a friend, we cant. Playing solo, game works fairly well. But when we try to do multi-player, first off it takes ages til we load into eachother s servers, but even when we re loaded, we can't see eachothers characters in game yet. We still have to wait more for that. And eventually when we are ready to skate a challenge together, we get stuck waiting for it to start, or one of us is in the challenge while the other is in a state of limbo between the open-world and challenge world, like the challenge started but the assets just didnt load in. Idk its very frustrating, because multi-player is kinda the only reason we play, and when we somehow get to the idea to play skate together, it takes eons for it to load and we run into all these issues and we and up restarting the game at least 5 times per seshion and eventually we dont even skate one challenge together.

Thanks.