[GTW] Active Career: Join at work pop-up missing

I just encountered the same. I think it started after fairy number two in the household took a job in the naturopath career. Her mother is max level naturopath, but it worked when she moved in with the reaper sim. Since both of the fairies have been working and starting at 9 I've not seen the popup for the reaper sim. I just tried the suggestion with toggling off, saving as new (always doing that though), restarting (and the deleted the thumbchache file before), activated popup on the reaper sim again and it was now a saturday and the younger fairy at level 5-6ish in naturopath got to call in sick to work - but she still got her 4-option popup and the reaper sim just went running to hers. Starting to get really sad about it. Hopefully it suddenly starts working again, or the second fairy will probably get to quit her job soon. So it seems sort of the naturopath popup "hinders" the reaper one for me, or something like that. On those there's no like toggle thingy for popups, so it's difficult to do something then. So might be something connected to that? And maybe certain levels. They recently were in Selvadorada also, and then super weirdly enough the max naturopath fairy got raises to the salary, and the lower level fairy got promotions - even though not being on the job but in a jungle :S