[LD] Can't get gold in funerals

I've tried to reply a few times but it keeps disappearing? 

When creating the event, usually I add four or five. I never do the maximum since the minimum is listed as three. 

I tested it a few times this go... One time using seven selected tasks in the event creator which went normal: mourn(checked off,  gave 1 point), serve food (checked off, didn't give a point), give eulogy (checked off and gave 1 point), light candles (checked off, gave 1 point), moment of silence (checked off, gave 2 points), play instrument (checked off, didn't give a point). This all left me with 5/7 at silver level. When I say they didn't give a point, I mean in the Lead Funeral Activities counter. So I did two extra tasks and got gold.

Tried using 4 activities which is what I usually do: mourn (checked off, gave 1 point), give eulogy (checked off and gave 1 point), moment of silence (checked off, gave 3 points - it was one at first, then it gave two more a few seconds later), light candles (checked off, gave one point). At that point I was at 6 out of 7, but few seconds after the light candles tasks, it gave me another point, which bumped me up to 7, but had me still in bronze level on the meter like in the previous screenshot.