[LD] Children die due to neglect despite not being neglected/LD pop Up LE

my child sims needs are perfect (all in the green) and i’ve had no notification about social services coming and yet i suddenly get a pop up about him dying, when i click either playable ghost or freelancing ghost he is then removed from my household saying he’s been ‘rescued’. I’ve closed my game and reopened it from my last save (luckily only 5 minutes prior) and yet it happened again? - unsure if i’m doing something wrong or if this is a glitch anyone else is experiencing