Toddlers/Infants don't age up with cake

This just started to happen to me today after the latest update was downloaded. Normal Lifespan

hi! recently in my game, I was throwing a birthday party for one of my infant sims to age her up to a toddler. she was designated as the birthday sim in the party. her mother made a cake and added the candles, but there was no option to help the infant blow out the candles. I hit the "Age a Sim Up" option from the pie menu, and she didn't pop up there either. i tried this with both aging on and aging off, and neither provided a solution. I had to age her up manually through MCCC, but I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced this issue recently or could offer a solution to the problem. thanks!

Hi all, I'm on console and whenever I have the issue with the blow out/help blow out candles not appearing or it's grayed out and unselectable I find moving the cake around and placing it on different counters or tables helps, eventually the options appear on the cake and I can age the kids up. Personally I think it's got something to do with the space around the cake, I've noticed that in my small kitchen it glitches out but if I put the cake outside where there's lots of room around it it tends to work more consistently. Hopefully this tip will help someone 😊