PlayStation vs Xbox unfair advantage

Is no one else having this problem it's extremely hard to down a PlayStation player my two shot is one of their shot

@huginn123I’m just curious how you can tell what platform these players are using? On pc all I can see is a controller symbol which basically says they are on console and not if someone is on xbox or playstation specifically

note: literally every streamer I watch uses a playstation so you might be onto something, personally playing with the controllers on pc a playstation one always makes me throw out melees which never happens on my xbox one so I prefer using a xbox one controller... I understand this is irrelevant but just thought I would add it

Xbox player here,

    Xbox one X actually, since getting next gen my games and backwards compatibility are awesome everything looks and performs great.... except this game. started taking a break again because this game is really bad...like really bad on console for no reason and playing just about anything else feels 100x better. Anyway, when I did play a lot in beginning of the season I got sued up with PS players all the time, its actually rare to have a full squad of xbox live members for me. It's probably because there just a surplus of kids on that platform. What I dont like is that it's VERY clear that the game logic has no idea what to do while playing thru cross platform on console. Im getting shot thru doors, around corners, thru frickin solid geometry (I can see the bullets just clip thru time n space). Never really stick around to see weather its a PS or Xbox player but for the most part its always or a majority a PS player because thats what the game ques up the most. weather it's an advantage im not sure, but its definitely the game registering something that on my screen clearly shouldn't happen but on their end it does and the game apparently just says "eh" n calls it a season.  

I'm a PS player & I experience the same crap... getting shot & killed fast (knocked in 1-2 shots)... dumping entire clip on a player & he's still standing... getting shot through walls or around corners... I think it's more the game itself, rather than it being a PS or Xbox player advantage/disadvantage. The hit box for some characters seems bigger than necessary, like Loba. I guess her rear end is a liability, lol.
I am very interested in getting the Switch, now that Nintendo is being added to the cross-play. My biggest concern; how many FPS it will be?... but I also expect to experience the same crap mentioned above.
One of the differences I've noticed between PS and Xbox players, is that a majority of PS players seem a bit more aggressive. My 2 sons got me into Apex (19yrs & 16yrs) back in Season 2. When 1st playing, I felt they were both much more aggressive than I was, but being aggressive is kind of key to this game.
I saw a comment where someone said that they believed there were more young players (or "kids" as they said) on PS, I might be inclined to agree with that (only because I think a lot of the adults online act like children), but younger players, and being young in general, they're just fearless. My goal was to play smart which meant playing conservative, but my boys were mad men, going after every team as if it was the last team to beat. I've come to find out, that's the best way to play this game. You can take advantage of the bigger hit boxes on some characters, but also learn the damage radius of your weapons. The magic shots that seems to turn corners or go through walls, might just be the damage radius of certain ammo fired from certain weapons.
A bit wordy, but that's my take.