@Pauldrake1998The problem lies in the differentiation between the cheaters and the unfortunate ones. Mainly that you can't really differentiate between the two.
While it is really unfortunate that your connection isn't handling the game well, you did mention yourself that it's an issue with your setup, not theirs. You can't reasonably expect the developers to provide leniency for issues on the users end.
For example....
I recently purchased GTA 5 for PC on a whim. After a couple of technical issues I had to uninstall the game, and am currently unable to re-download it due to the fact that I use tethering to my mobile device as my primary internet at the moment, and another 88gb file download will fill my data cap and brick my phone.
Could the devs had made their install process more stable (oooh buddy everybody complains about EA, but don't get me started on Rockstar...) sure. Could they make the file size smaller? Maybe. However I could have also anticipated that purchasing such a large game could have negative implications on my metered connection.
I am truly sorry, especially if you live in a part of the world where fast stable internet is not available to you, but there really isn't a lot that the devs could do from their end, given the extenuating circumstances.
With that being said.... The only long shot suggestion I could offer you, is to maybe look and see if your phone could help you as it does me? ASSUMING you posses a 4g capable devices and a data plan. For my part personally, on Verizon networks in the US, I'm able to comfortably run Apex and Discord simultaneously with about 70ms ping and very little lag. I have never disconnected mid game using this setup. Perhaps it's an option to look into?
