Hey all,
I'm going to lock this thread as there's some broad assumptions being thrown around, and this isn't really a productive way to talk about an issue like this. I know that we all find ourselves in these sorts of uncomfortable situations from time to time, so if someone is being inappropriate in chat or over voice comms you can always report them so the Terms of Service team can take a look. 
That said, combating toxicity in our communities is a pretty high priority for EA as a whole right now. When you have the time I'd encourage you to read this article about the recent summit we hosted on this subject: 
https://www.ea.com/news/building-healthy-communities-summit
There's a lot of info there on the steps that EA is taking in an effort to reduce the toxicity that some of our players might be dealing with when they're just trying to play a game. Toxicity in gaming is nothing new, but it's definitely something that's on our radar, and we're trying to make it better. 
/Kent