Apex crashes in ranked

Hi all! first of all, excuse my terrible english, I will do my best to express what I have to say. Thanks for having this space the community. I've been reading this technical issues space to find the answer to a problem that's been constant for a lot of players since season 4 came out. 
I play Apex Legends for the ranked leagues, playing normals isn't fun for me and for a lot of people I play with, we want the tension that the ranked leagues create, the suspense, the teammate collaboration. I'm a predator in this season and I was a predator in the past season, my placement was below 350 worldwide and I have a few teammates that ranked below 100 worldwide. We are the people that play constantly this game, day after day.  And we also spend a lot of money in it. I have more than 125 legendaries items, and 2 accounts. The thing is, I play between 3-5 matches and 2 things happen:
1-Someone from my team crashes in the legends selection and gets an abandon penalty, which does not reset from the previous one (it could be my two team mates or the 3 of us)
2- I crash and I get an abandon penalty
You see a lot of people throwing themselves to the lava to instantly die and restart a match that is not worth playing with 2 players in the team because ranked leagues are so tryhard in this moment.
This is so frustrating and also... We are getting tired of it,  tired of the bugs that are not our fault and certainly, getting "banned" for something like this so not worth our time and money that we have put into this. I get it, the bugs are not easy to fix, but does it makes any sense to maintain the abandon penalty if the game cant distinguish a crash from a real abandon? Do we need to look other games to play and invest our time? Because we are constantly getting "banned" to play?