This issue has been ongoing for at least 2 years. I have tried everything, just as many others, to no avail. It's been more than evident that the issue is related to the faulty Anti-cheat service, but EA don't really care. There is a reason why there are barely enough people in the game to start a game...and yeah, the issue is also only present when using the cross-play. If you turn it off, to only play with PC gamers you won't get disconnected, but due to lack of support their entire player base is now 13 people...so good luck getting a server started.
