Jet wait timer and gameplay is horrible

I sit on bf6 map screen in game until I get kicked out for inactivity or I move my mouse sitting for 10-15 minutes still can’t select a jet to fly because it’s only 2 jets and 32 ppl with probably 5 ppl spamming the button… if you get in a jet within 11 seconds you have 2-3 AA missles blowing your aircraft into very fine particles of ash, dust, and disappointment.