Unable to join any multiplayer game "TIMED OUT"

Hello folks, I just want to point out a very annoying issue that has been going on for me in battlefield 6 for xbox series x the past couple nights. So I start by loading up battlefield 6, I press A to get to the main menu. I search for a match and it starts connecting me to a match, and this is where the problem starts. Either the screen will go black for bout 8 seconds or the map loading screen will pop up, but then it sends me back to the main menu and says "TIMED OUT  Your session timed out from inactivity, and you've been disconnected." This is very frustrating, because I've tried resetting my wifi, my xbox, deleted the game and redownloaded it, cleared local saves from my xbox, everything, and still the same error message every time I try to load up a match. Whats weirder is this only happens at random times. For example , I played about 8 matches of redsec this morning, and I was going to play a little tonight, but now I'm getting these error messages again, last night I got them as well, and a couple nights before that I was getting it too. I was hoping it would be resolved right now because I barely get time to play any games. PLEASE HELP 🙏