Desync losses

I would really like to know what’s the point of me continuing to play this game and spending my money on it if they’re going to tell me that when a desync happens I won’t get a loss yet I come back to the screen every time with a loss. I’ve been eliminated from the playoffs multiple times because of this (it’s actually the reason I’m on a new season now). Why am I spending $100 a month on Internet that can run this game if other people is trash connection can just make me lose games?