Varric's shaving mirror inaccessible

Same here, I presumed the mirror was the way we'd be able to make this change later on. Considering the inclusivity for transgender characters, it seems like an oversight that players cannot change their gender/pronouns. Could we possibly get this patched?

I also looked at it and thought it would be accessible any time so I set it down to keep decorating and now I am so much farther past that point I don't wanna lose all my progress but I want my rook to identify as trans :(

I'm pretty upset that it happened to me too.  :(

I'm upset about this too :( I thought you could choose everything and now I feel like I'm missing out

I wanted to do gender and scar options, but it looks like once you put the mirror down you can never interact with it again. Seems like a huge oversight. Hope they patch it.

I would love for this to changed so that we can access it later as well.

You can change how your Rook looks by using the Mirror of Transformation in the room where Varric is recovering, the room where Rook woke up after stopping Solas in the beginning of the game when you arrive at the Lighthouse for the first time. The Mirror of Transformation is in the corner of the room. Varric's shaving mirror is just a decorative item in the meditation room and is not used for changing how your character looks.

Same here. I misunderstood the somewhat confusing explanation of how choosing something would end the conversation, and completely missed the chance to make my trans Rook actually be recognised by the game as trans. In my mind, it was gonna be a big part of their character journey so I'm gutted. I only just found out what I missed now I'm 20+ hours in so I don't wanna continue but also don't want to reload. Begging the devs to fix this tbh