Unable to Login/Reset Link/Unlink EA account with Xbox. HUNDRED$ down the drain

So I've purchased a new Xbox and successfully reset and logged into my old Xbox account. I've purchased an EA game and EA play, but I cannot log into my EA account. Of course not (LOL). I tried to log into EA and link my Xbox account from there, but this gives me an error that my Xbox account is already linked to an EA account that has been disabled.

So I've just spent a few hundred dollars on a game console I cannot log into.

Way to go EA! Way to go!

Microsoft will blame EA and EA will blame Microsoft. Meanwhile, I'll get to battle with me bank on disputing a chargeback on digital products, plus I'll probably have to sell my Xbox used on Facebook and take another loss.

I'm an idiot for trusting Microsoft and EA. I should have known better.